The Guy Code of Social Media

Zoe Schaefer Blog Post 2

Lora Strey

Composition 101-12

The Guy Code of Social Media

“Bro’s Before Ho’s’: The Guy Code” by, Michael Kimmel is an article that shares a world of rules regarding masculinity. In his article he summarizes the general guy code into a list of ten. They are listed to the right. The overall feeling one would get after looking at this list is showing any emotion as makes you less manly. In his article he also states how young women feel free to be whatever they like while young men still feel a pressure to “Be a man!” (469). While reading this article it is easy to picture guys we know acting out these “rules”.

            This article makes my group think of the men we know and how they portray themselves to others via social networks (i.e. facebook, Instagram, twitter). The men of our life always come across more masculine and less themselves while on these sites. The fact that men only show a certain side of themselves on the web is clear in nearly every form of media I can think of. After reading this article I have a couple questions on my mind: If you look on Instagram, Facebook, Tumblr or Twitter, can you find all of the rules of the “Real Guy’s Top Ten List”, in real guys?

            My group began checking out hash-tags over various social networking sites. What we found was astonishing. For example, if I search the #sizematters on Instagram I find tons of pictures of buff guys at the gym, taking mirror selfie’s. Or if I go on twitter and search #rideordie I found many tweets (from men) revolving around sports teams. One good example of this is “Hahha you don’t know pain until you become a cowboy fan for life… #rideordie”

(@antonio_g5). After searching all of the rules of the guys top ten list (in some variation or another) you can indeed find men and boys of all ages acting by these specific guidelines.

            I will personally never know why men act the way they do on social networking sites. I’m not sure if I ever will. This makes me wonder, is there a secret “guy code” that I don’t know about? If so, why do men put up with it (I know women don’t)? Regardless, the only way that any of this will change if guys ‘Take it Like a Man’ (#4) and show some emotion.

           

           

Works Sited

Code, Guy. Humble Pie. Digital image. N.p., n.d. Web. 22 Sept. 2014.

Garcia, Antonio (@antonio_g5). “hahha you don’t know pain until you become a cowboy fan for life…#rideordie”. 07 Sep 14, 4:13. Tweet.

Kimmel, Michael. "Bro's Before Ho's; The Guy Code." America Now: Short Readings from Recent Periodicals. 10th ed. Boston: Robert Atwan, 2013. 469-75. Print.

(Tony_Fitt). “Still on my shred flow😎 #sizematters #shredz #boom #shredzarmy #gymtime #muddafucka #fit #fitness #fitt #swoldier #nofilter”24 September 2014. 4:30pm. Instagram.

Conspicuous Consumption through Social Media

“The Powerful Theory of Conspicuous Consumption” describes the idea formed by Thorstein Veblen in his book “The Theory of the Leisure Class.” Veblen states conspicuous consumption is the idea that consumers buy products just for sake of having them, not actually because they need them. The article mentions that consumption began to play a major role in the American society when advertising started increasing, department stores started popping up, the effects of the Industrial Revolution, and growth of mass media.

            Media in itself is a $970 billion industry (Potter, 235). $316 million of that comes from advertising (Potter, 235). Some of the most popular places for advertising are places that most people have easy access to and check frequently: social media such as Facebook and Twitter. Our group decided to look into the costs of advertising on these popular sites and if it actually works.

            According to an article on Linkedin written by Sara Wheelwright, S & E Trusted Online Directories Inc - Founder/ Head of strategy, Facebook ads have an initial set-up fee of $500-1,500. After that fee has been taken care of, it’s broken down a bit more. Promoted ads can cost anywhere from $1,500-20,000, while monthly ads range from $1,000-2,000 for 1-3 months of promotion (Wheelwright).

            Twitter, on the other hand, has a different tactic. According to a business page for Twitter, promoted tweets cost $0.50-2.00 per interaction. If someone clicks, favorites, retweets, or replies to a promoted tweet, the promoter is pays $0.50-2.00. A promoted account generally costs $2.50-4.00 per new follower, states the Twitter business page. The page also mentions the most expensive advertising option through Twitter is the promoted trend which can cost approximately $200,000, and guarantees placement on the trends list on Twitter for 24 hours.

            After spending thousands of dollars of advertising on popular social media websites, is all the advertising actually working? According to an article on Forbes, written by Davia Temin, people have subconsciously trained themselves to ignore whatever advertising does not interest them. 80% of people, or 4 out of every 5, have never bought a product because of a Facebook advertisement (Temin). People do still buy products they don’t need, but according to these statistics, it’s not because of advertising tactics through Facebook sidebars. However, hashtags on Twitter seem to draw the most attention to products. For example, Hershey’s created #CookieHQ. The hashtag was used 14,875 times by 898 people, and reached the timelines of over 34.6 million people (Temin). 36.4 million people probably didn’t need chocolate or cookies, but after seeing it trending and seeing it on their timelines, a lot of those people probably wanted chocolate or cookies, and probably some of those people acted on that want and got chocolate or cookies.

            Conspicuous consumption is still very much present in today’s society. The growth of mass media has influenced this idea even more because there are new ways of advertising for unnecessary products everyday. While a Facebook advertisement 
may not make us want to go out and buy and a product, hashtags 
have the ability to draw us, keep us scrolling for hours, and 
potentially end up convincing us that we need the product.

Works Cited

"Analytics of Twitter." Twitter. Twitter Inc., 2014. Web. 16 Sept. 2014.

Citibank Advertisement: http://www.limkokwing-studios.com/graphics/gallery/works/citibank_ad.jpg

Ford Fiesta Advertisement: http://www.cartype.com/pics/7253/full/ford_fiesta_technology_ad_10.jpg

L’oreal Advertisement: http://www.art-dept.net/wp-content/uploads/2012/02/JH_Loreal.jpg

Potter, W. James. Media Literacy. 7th ed. Los Angeles: Sage Publications, 2014. Print.

Starbucks Advertisement: http://seattletimes.nwsource.com/ABPub/2009/05/06/2009186184.jpg

Temin, Davia. "Don't Waste Money - Make Your Social Media Advertising Smarter, More Original, More Effective." Forbes. N.p., 3 Dec. 2013. Web. 16 Sept. 2014.

Verizon Wireless Advertisement: http://s3images.coroflot.com/user_files/individual_files/original_373982_Q8Y8ah2VLtGWKA_rxZAUvM3Or.jpg

Wheelwright, Sara. "How Much Does Marketing with an Ad Agency, Marketing Company, Social Media Company and Video Companies Really Cost?" Linkedin. N.p., 19 Apr. 2014. Web. 16 Sept. 2014.